Hi guys
I've been playing with NLp and hypno-based pick-up technqiues for a few months now and enjoying myself a lot. I have an intention to teach some techniques later in the year, and what interests me is introducing some ethics into PUA teaching....
In my relationships with women, I aim to leave women in the same or a better palce than when I met them.
The ways I've found to do that, is by being really honest about relationship expectations, making them feel good about themselves, and when it's time to move on, making sure they feel it was their decision too.
i's like to bring in the idea of an ecology check into hook ups...
Some thoughts for PUAs are to ask themselves:
* Does your outcome match the woman's?
* Are your highervalues met by this encounter?
* Imagine yourself the next morning / next week - how do you feel about the encounter? How could you feel better?
Any thoughts on this topic wouldbe greatly appraciated as I only have sketchy thoghts so far and haven't don any real process thinking on this...
Thanks
Viv
[Read more...]I've been playing with NLp and hypno-based pick-up technqiues for a few months now and enjoying myself a lot. I have an intention to teach some techniques later in the year, and what interests me is introducing some ethics into PUA teaching....
In my relationships with women, I aim to leave women in the same or a better palce than when I met them.
The ways I've found to do that, is by being really honest about relationship expectations, making them feel good about themselves, and when it's time to move on, making sure they feel it was their decision too.
i's like to bring in the idea of an ecology check into hook ups...
Some thoughts for PUAs are to ask themselves:
* Does your outcome match the woman's?
* Are your highervalues met by this encounter?
* Imagine yourself the next morning / next week - how do you feel about the encounter? How could you feel better?
Any thoughts on this topic wouldbe greatly appraciated as I only have sketchy thoghts so far and haven't don any real process thinking on this...
Thanks
Viv
Source: http://www.nlpconnections.com/nlp-seduction-relationships/12061-pua-ecology-check.html
