Hi all,
I have a strange question; prehaps something that is not going to be possible as it may defy the possibilites of NLP, however, here's to hoping.
I have been in a relationship with a girl 5 years younger than me for 3 years - I am 25, she is 20 it is at a point in a relationship where I think it is in our best interests to go our own ways, she has her future planned out with me and talks as if we will be togther for ever (she moved in with me 2 years ago....)...and I would like to position the break up in away that she can see taht it is going to be for the best and in someway lessen the pain for her.
here is a run down:
We met when she was 17 and got togehter just before her 18th bday, she was from Sydney (a city in a different state than us) but living in Brisbane with her mum while she studied and was planning on going back to sydney - until we met and she decided to stay here with me, we moved in together, she doesnt like Brisbane and has very few of her own friends here...but plenty of friends in sydney and not to mention family.
I have a successful business and am starting another one now with a view of expanding my first business into a different state in the next 5 months....so I really need to focus on my work and personal development and as much as I do love her, I dont feel I am ready to commit myself to a long term relationship.
So, I've pretty much made the decision that I need to end it and given I have learnt enough about NLP to use in a business sense I was wondering if anyone could give me pointers on how (or if) I could use NLP to help her come to the relisation she would be better off back in sydney without me and that life wont be so bad without me....
its a long shot...but worth a try.
this sucks.
[Read more...]I have a strange question; prehaps something that is not going to be possible as it may defy the possibilites of NLP, however, here's to hoping.
I have been in a relationship with a girl 5 years younger than me for 3 years - I am 25, she is 20 it is at a point in a relationship where I think it is in our best interests to go our own ways, she has her future planned out with me and talks as if we will be togther for ever (she moved in with me 2 years ago....)...and I would like to position the break up in away that she can see taht it is going to be for the best and in someway lessen the pain for her.
here is a run down:
We met when she was 17 and got togehter just before her 18th bday, she was from Sydney (a city in a different state than us) but living in Brisbane with her mum while she studied and was planning on going back to sydney - until we met and she decided to stay here with me, we moved in together, she doesnt like Brisbane and has very few of her own friends here...but plenty of friends in sydney and not to mention family.
I have a successful business and am starting another one now with a view of expanding my first business into a different state in the next 5 months....so I really need to focus on my work and personal development and as much as I do love her, I dont feel I am ready to commit myself to a long term relationship.
So, I've pretty much made the decision that I need to end it and given I have learnt enough about NLP to use in a business sense I was wondering if anyone could give me pointers on how (or if) I could use NLP to help her come to the relisation she would be better off back in sydney without me and that life wont be so bad without me....
its a long shot...but worth a try.
this sucks.
Source: http://www.nlpconnections.com/forum/13257-relationship-breakup.html
