From NLP Connections and by Edel. (Mar 31st, 2009)

A client (36) said to me at the end of the intake session that life is pointless if she can not be the best in the office, the most gorgeous looking, most intelligent and most perfect in every way. She has an incredible high pitched voice, like a young 12 year old girl and I was surprised when I met her to see a 36 year old woman. She comes to me for weight loss as she sais that she wants to lose 30 kg to be on the outside who she is in the inside, but whenever she reaches a certain weight, she stops herself and feels that she is scared of the outcome, as what then? At this point she wants to be helped.
The weightloss is for her a means to an end to get into her fairy tale life, the relationship she wants and having lots of babies. As she is overweight, she does not allow herself to get into any relationship as well as believes that as her body is not perfect , she rejects good work offers, as she thinks my body is not perfect, so why do people believe I can do the job well. Regarding a relationship she sais: "What if I am perfect and get into a relationship, what if my partner is not perfect or I am not perfectly in love, or my life is nevertheless not perfect." Yes, I have my own sense how to proceed (Core transformation with the part which makes her stop), nevertheless I would be interested what thoughts or ideas you might have concerning the usage of NLP in her case. Thanks a lot for your insights. :(
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