I recounted something I'd done to a friend who does NLP, and she said 'Ah, you're a polarity responder'.

Never mind what the content and context of the incident was, my take is that I made a considered choice which happened to be to go into a different direction than someone had proposed. Is that itself still a polarity response, or would it have to be more automatic to be included in that category?

(I note with amusement that what I'm telling myself here is 'I'm not a polarity responder'...) :D
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