Warning: I may ask follow up questions to repliers that may or may not sound like challenges, but my primary goal is to understand. Feel free to challenge me as well.

Not taking rape, coercion, or slipping in some pill into consideration which don't count as seduction anyway, I believe that from a man's point of view it is unethical to make a promise and break it and leave a child with a woman and run off.

Other than that, I think it's all fair game. Basically if a woman is actively pursuing or being open to an intimate relationship with me without me lying to her, then I don't see anything wrong with that.

I am confused by some people's negative reactions to men who "use hypnosis" or "NLP tactics" on women. Maybe your definition of hypnosis and NLP is very different from mine.

Isn't dressing well, speaking well, being confident, having great body language and touching, etc forms of hypnotizing people too? Can't establishing rapport, reframing, embedded suggestions, etc be done in ethical ways?

If you agree with the above, then I think it becomes a matter of what you think is ethical use of hypnosis/NLP.
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