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Mastering The Meta Model

Mastering The Meta Model There has been a lot written about the NLP Meta Model over the years, from the earliest days it was first presented to the world in Dr. (...)

A SHAMELESS BRIBE (for Those Who Want More Business)

Hey, how you doing? James Lavers here.

I've just launched a new monthly programme called "From Start To Freedom" that gives you Grassroots marketing training - and it's designed specifically for people like US...NLPers, Coaches, Hypnotists etc

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Any Clean Language training in Spanish ?

Hello:


I was asked by a colleague of mine in Peru if anyone conducts CL training in Spanish. He teaches at a university, and would like to start a course that includes culture and metaphor.

Keiko

What Do You Wish Someone Had Told You …

The following question was asked on another forum:

What is the one piece of advice every small business owner should hear that will maximize their chances for success? What do you wish someone had told you?

There is lots of advice that can be given..

- how you handle your resources
- the best way to deal with difficult customers
- how you should do your marketing
- how you should do interviews to get the best person for the job
- what you should invest in
- know your objectives
- do market research
- …

The list seems endless and when you’re just starting out this might seem overwhelming…

The very best advice anyone can get when they are starting out is that they should devote a distinct part of their time on developing a great entrepreneurial mindset.

As a businessowner you need to be realistic, you need to have patience, you need to have commitment, focus, be able to manage money, be creative, be solution focussed, you should be able to handle your fears, doubts, insecurities, you got to trust your coworkers or your partners, be able to see opportunities and take them, …

Sure we all have our moments and that’s ok, we’re after all humans. And one day goes better then the other, but you should work on improving your attitude and mindset on a consistent basis.

You do not want any fears,doubts, insecurities,.. to get in the way of your success in business and life.

If you grow, your business will grow.

Actually it happens so often that a business grows to fast for the business owner to keep up.. and then it starts slacking…

Realize that you are the driver of the business, and how you drive will have an immense impact on if the business is successful or not.

And that’s the ONE thing business owners are overlooking when they run into a problem and get stuck.. they tend to lay blame, on a technical aspect, or a coworker, or the market, or the economy, … but they fail to look at how they are dealing with the problem. And to any problem in a business there’s a solution, but you gotto to be willing to see where the real problem is…

In the IM business people could be easily tempted to start out by the image that they could easily make thousands of dollars with no work at all..

Well anyone buying into that has a success rate of close to 0.

I see lots of people buying into the four hour workweek illusion. This only will work if you already have a business, with implemented auomatisation procedures, BUT when you are just starting out it’s gonna take lots of hard work and long hours...

The MAIN reason why small businesses fail, is because the person in charge is not great at managing themselves

Basically the one best advice is: get your attitude and mindset in sync with where your outcome is.

Have fun

Bart

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Reverse Meta Model: Simple Deletions

A simple deletion is when an important element in a statement is missing. This is different from the earlier category of “unspecified nouns” because in the latter case the sentence has an object, it’s just unspecified. Here, it would be missing entirely.

Here are some examples of how a client might use them and thus inspire us, as therapists, to employ the meta model to recover information lost from the surface structure of their sentences:

I don’t know… it’s just awful.

This happens every time I go.

My Dad told me, and he was proven right over and over again.

And here are some examples of how we can purposely simply delete, for positive purpose:

“I know you are wondering.” (about what? – The listener must fill in the blank.)

“And as she drifted into trance she listened carefully.”

“Deeper and deeper. That’s right.”

Time line and amnesia

This week I had two clients that made me think about the ecological advantages of amnesia. I really like time line techniques, I rely on them a lot.

The first was a 26 year old girl, I've been working with her quite a lot, she had many issues, we are p…

Newby in the House!!

Hi everyone, I am Maureen, new to Coaching/NLP, just looking to make changes/improvements in my life and feel this is the possible route to take! Has anyone had Coaching via the Coaching Academy? Was it useful to you? How have you fared since completing the courses...could you afford the courses!!!!!

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New Code Game Guitar Hero Drums

Apologies if there is a thread on this already...

For any trained new coders out there what have been your most surprising succeses? I was thinking specifically 6 step reframe, unconscious signals and new code games.
My best to date goes like this. A friend had a headache for three weeks. I tried to get her to get her own unconscious signals but every time she tried to get them she twitched. She has had this twitch for about 10 years. It happens anywhere - especially bad in people's company which has caused her to be alone many times to avoid embarrassment - going home early,leaving parties, going to bed early, not sleeping properly because it would keep her awake. It stumped me at the time because the signals couldn't be distinguished from twitchy "noise"
At this point I took a lead role and asked her unconscious to withhold the twitch so we could establish the signals. It did!! We got them, did the six step reframe and her headache disappeared - for good. Better than that her twitch has reduced at least 80% and when it does raise its head she asks her unconscious to stop it which it does. She had been to see a neurologist years ago who told her she had a chemical imbalance and nothing could be done - ha!!
Ps. I have been playing guitar hero drums and was wondering if this could be considered a nifty new code game for some. It uses right arm, left arm, both feet tap together for the bass drum. It is very visual because you need to watch when to hit pads and very auditory because you need to listen to the rhythm. When I have played it it feels similar to the effect of the nasa game. Dunno what do people think?

Can Anchors be thought of as non-verbal commands?

 hi folks,
 
 Can i think of anchors as non verbal commands (atleast visual,tonal,kinesthetic,spacial)?
 Non verbal equivalent of embedded commands/indirect elicitation patterns?
 And will they work better  after a pattern interrupt/confusion pattern(…

NLP Subliminal Mind Cleaner

This is a part of my efforts to restore the old NLP Subliminals mp3 series; I had downloaded these before from NLP Weekly and I am re-uploading them.

NLP Subliminal General Wellness

This a part of my efforts to restore the old NLP Subliminals mp3 series; I had downloaded these before from NLP Weekly and I am re-uploading them.

NLP Subliminal Forging Self Confidence

This a part of my efforts to restore the old NLP Subliminals mp3 series; I had downloaded these before from NLP Weekly and I am re-uploading them.

NLP Subliminal Faster Neurons

This a part of my efforts to restore the old NLP Subliminals mp3 series; I had downloaded these before from NLP Weekly and I am re-uploading them.

NLP Subliminal Confidence Booster

This a part of my efforts to restore the old NLP Subliminals mp3 series; I had downloaded these before from NLP Weekly and I am re-uploading them.

NLP Subliminal Micro Self Discipline

This a part of my efforts to restore the old NLP Subliminals mp3 Series; I had downloaded these before from NLP Weekly and I am re-uploading them.

Narcissists

I have had several very unpleasant encounters with people who I believe to be suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions as to how to handle this type of person.

I have a strong preference for kinaesthetic and am extremely good at feeling the energy coming from people. Because of this I see straight through most deceptions and can quickly figure people out (this has nothing to do with NLP, I have always done this). Because of this I think I terrify the afore mentioned people and they seek to discredit me by persistant lies directed at me. I am not willing to roll over for these people, even though I know this is one way to stop their negative intentions towards me.

Any suggestions?

I was also wondering about rapport with people like this. From what I understand, rapport makes the subconscious think that you are like them. Wouldn't some people feel incredibly threatened by that. If you know you are a lying, manipulative so and so who thinks you are better than everyone else, and you meet someone who appears to be just like you. wouldn't this set off alarm bells?

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Clean Language facilitator request in West Midlands UK

Hi all

I have had a request from a potential client in the West Midlands, UK for a professional Clean Language facilitator who works in that area. Their particular desire is help in dealing with a phobia.

Please contact me by Private Message on this forum (click here and type 'forumadmin' or 'phil' in the Recipient Username' box) if you wish to respond.

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Phil

thoughts about this situation.

So i had a client booked for this week with PTSD.
after the booking the clients daughter rang an NLP specialist in the UK who solely specialises in PTSD – that's all he does. (and his website is very convincing – they have a team of fund raisers and th…

Meeting Women Online

Has anybody have any experience of using speed seduction techiniques on sex/swinger type websites. I am trying to write a good advert/profile on a swinger website that will have woman dying to contact me.

I Can;t Find the Accrediting Bodies?……do They Exist

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Am New at All

hi evry body
iam mosaap from sudan, am 26 years old, i blive in humanbeen and we are the most maizing thing in the blanet, our ability to change its what make me got choke, if i get adream , iwant to know how that hapend, i allways hear advice about how telent smart iam and how i could be agreat person, but no one tell me somthing real practical to do:( , ihope nlp do that, short life what we live, good to "know" some howcould make it more useful

Linguistical Logical Confusion

Hi all,

I play word games with my little nice and I cannot help but think I am reinventing the wheel. I am trying to teach her new words, meanings and just to enjoy playing with words, similar to those used in hypnotic induction I guess.

For example,

...One cool Sunday night a cold knight called Thursday galloped into town alone with his horse....

or

... "my dog has got no nose"

how does he smell?

"awful"!....

I have trawled the net fishing for ideas but have only found carp sites and then thought about asking for your kelp.


Don't be koi,

Here is my payment in advance for your kind words,

"Four candles"

"here you go, four candles",

"no, I want four candles, handles for forks"


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