Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,
Within the next 72 hours I’ll open up registration for what looks like my only European seminar for 2009, to take place in London, Aug 21-23.
Before I book my tickets(on Virgin Atlantic, of course!) I’m going to figure out my travel schedule.
I definitely want to go to Sweden again for a while(and probably teach a day there), but I’m thinking of a whirlwind tour of Europe.
So, anyone out there think that Greece would be a great place to visit? How about Spain?
If I went to those countries, would anyone out there show me around?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Make sure you come back here Wed-I think that’s when enrollment for London will open.
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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,
This video is number 6 of the 10 part Youtube Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery Series.( I know I say on the video that it is number 7 but actually it is number 6 .But really what the fuck does it matter?)
I teach my favorite method meeting women: the Put On.
This approach has many advantages, as I outline in this video.
1. It’s fun, so you do more of it.
2. It allows me to screen for women who enjoy my sense of humor and who can handle something a bit out of the ordinary-who in fact respond well and enjoy a bit out of the ordinary.
3. It’s unique so it gets positive attention.
Give it a watch and pass it on. And comment please.
Once again, the video is: Pick Up Artist Tactic: How To Be Funny/Use Put Ons To Meet Women
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. If you want to learn these methods, all in one place check out my Gold Walk Up DVD.
P.P.S. As I think you can see BY NOW, my advice for men goes way beyond pick up lines or traditional dating tips. This is the real stuff, for real world results.
If you are one of those people who says to themselves ”Ooo, now, what did he / she say their name was?” then this tip is for you. If not feel very good about already having a way of remembering names excellently and gallantly read on !
Here is a strategy you can use to remember peoples’ names more effectively, try it out, modify it and find out what works best for you. I’ll use a training room / networking event as an example but you can look forward to thinking about how the ideas here might be useful in other ways.
When you meet the person smile and let them open; “Hi I’m Andy, how are you?” Repeat their name back to them “Hi Andy, I’m fantastic thanks, I’m ( )” or if you open, put out your hand and say “Hi, I’m ( ), how are you?” “I’m Andy, great thanks, and you ( )?”
As you repeat their name back to them imagine their name printed on their forehead, I like to imagine it in bright neon.
Throughout the conversation use their name when possible; “So Andy, who else do you know here?” 
“What brings you here Andy?” “What first sparked your interest in NLP Andy?”
This multi sensory (internal Visual – sign, Auditory – saying the name, Kinesthetic -handshake) encoding works very well in improving memory / associations. By repeating the name at the same time in your mind and shaking hands you are combining Internal Dialogue with Kinesthetic, associating the two ’sensory experiences’ together. So, when your mind searches for their name there will be more associations for ‘it’ to make. Which means you’re more likely to remember them and who they are. Of course there are places where you don’t shake hands. For me internal Visual - sign and Auditory – saying the name, along with using their name at least three times in opening conversation works very well also. Your own mileage with this may vary, I hope only to have given you some ideas and remember;
There is no failure only feedback & practice makes permanent.
Enjoy
Verdana; font-size: small;”>Andy
