Spiral Dynamics

Anyone made it a special interest?
If so, I would have a few questions I'd like to bounce.
Not strictly NLP but systems and all that……..

Dealing with People who think they Know It All

I had this strange experience and situation.

One could think, how can you convince someone that hypnosis is a natural state of the mind if they firmly believe that they are the smartest of everyone?

Well, at first I simply attempted to explain it to hi…

Age Requirement and Legality (in the UK)

This is my situation:

After studying hypnosis, NLP and, more specifically, conversational hypnosis I have found that all those whom have spoken to me, whether completely against the notion of deep trance or completely skeptical, have, after a few days,…

Derren Brown: Control The Nation

Just watched Derrens show!

I can safely say that the video had nothing to do with it.

The whole show including the mentalism effects , coupled with Kinesiology and a strong suggestion to stick to the chair,was just designed to influence suggestible p…

Limiting beliefs – Which ones are common and most unhealthy?

Has anyone ever compilied a list of limiting beliefs that many people have? I could imagine it it be useful to have a list of common ones along with several reframes for each. I would guess that many expressions of negative beliefs could also be chucke…

Patterns of Chronicity by Andrew Austin

Andrew Austin talks about patterns of chronicity which are patterns that keep certain problems chronic for clients.  One of the patterns of chronicity is "testing for the problem".  That is, people with chronic problems continously test to check if the…

the thing i hate most..

the exceedingly needy attention-seeking hypochondriacs.

i have one this afternoon as a client, i normally NEVER take on these clients, but i spent waaaay too much cash last week to be turning clients down this week.
I already know how to deal with this…

Hypnosis/NLP for ..’seduction’ purposes??

I've been real interested in this mentalist mind over matter/psychology stuff for a long time now.. and over the past couple years I've personally been implementing much hypnosis/NLP techniques which I learned from Mod's note – sales site li…

States accessed by completely shutting down Auditory Digital

Hi all,

In her intro on New coding of NLP, Judith Delozier says "A modelling state is quiet, without internal dialogue, uses peripheral vision, not foveal vision."
[Mod's note; leads to sales site removed]

An article on Night …

Interview

This one…

I like !!!  wink

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMipI3zjMOc

Working with friends, family

Hi, I really need your opinion on this.
Do you (would you) work with friends or family members, relatives?
If no, why? If yes, do you do anything differently?

Resistant Client – Too much conscious intervention

Hi Guys,

Saw a client recently and first time I have experience it. How does one bypass the conscious mind when doing Timelime sessions. The client kept analyzing the process and couldn't seem to get the first event(root cause). I reframed that negativ…

Am I Ugly?

All right crew.  I'm working with a client that is REALLY insecure about his looks.  He's labeled himselfs as having BDD.  Does anyone have any experience with something like this?  That's all I got for now.  I'll post up more info soon. 

Ecological Resources

Ok… ecology.  This topic is very dear to my heart, as I've done a lot of unecological work on myself  grin.  Even with all the people I've worked with and all the work I've done on myself, it seems that I still sometimes do unecological work…so h…

"Thank you" as sugestion.

never noticed that if you ask something to some one to do
and you say:"thank you" before they decided to do it or not they our put in the presuposition that they will do it?
and so they are more motivated to do it.
can it  be used like a tag question t…

Artificial Intelligence in the internet.

Call me crazy, but im absolutely certain it exists and is growing smarter and smarter.
The human brain has been modelled.
A logic machine+ a randomiser. Its already here- for ages. I can't remember what its called tho.
Pretty much equals, and even near…

Spatial Anchors how effective are they!

Hi folks,
              I have recently been experimenting a lot with spatial anchors.  I have found a volunteer (me)  who's open to all kinds of NLP experiments. Timelines and Systemic Values Sort pattern works easily for me. While I have trouble wit…

You cant shake hands with a clenched fist

One of the best things about Stephen Covey is how he uses his heart and his head in equal measure. If you haven't heard it before I thought I'd share this great metaphor of his with you.

In the 7 habits, considering what it takes for the understanding …

This frame blows me away…

Chris Hall writes:

I would like to expand the notion of what you can do with beliefs. It’s not about finding out what is wrong. And it’s not about validating or invalidating or even eliminating a particular belief. This simply isn’t particularly produc…

Advanced language patterns – samples

Hi folks,

I've been learning about language patterns, presuppositions and embedded commands for quite a while now but noticed that some of them just fly out of my mind, even though I write them down. How about if we post samples in this topic, so ever…

Rapport.

I came across many people that were asking how to build a strong rapport. They said that when they've tried to do so, most likely it looked funny or they weren't focusing on the conversation and the outcome was completely different – they were breaking…

This is weird…

If you think EFT is fruity, check this out laugh

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n9THuuHP8qo

NLP based cards game – The Nano Tech Power Deck

I just purchase this card game which seems really nice. You can use it with yourself, friends or clients.

The Nano Tech Power Deck is a card game that helps you, each time in a different way, to change the way you think and feel.
The Nano Tech Deck e…

help with training my uptime.

hey people.

do you have some advice on how to train your uptime?
how to shhh the internal talk?
how to train sensory acuity?

any tips, experiences, techniques are welcome.

Richard Bandler – "Spinning" Audio

Hello All,

A while back I heard an mp3/CD of Richard Bandler executing his anxiety-releasing spinning reversal – I thought it was quite powerful and effective.  It was the one where the subject visualizes stress/anxiety/negative emotions as a spinning …

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