NLP Feed » NLP Connections http://www.nlpfeed.com Syndicated content from all the major NLP sites Tue, 07 Feb 2012 15:46:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 en hourly 1 Rejections Make Me Intensely Angry/frustrated, How Could I Better Deal/reframe? http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57970/rejections-make-me-intensely-angryfrustrated-how-could-i-better-dealreframe.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57970/rejections-make-me-intensely-angryfrustrated-how-could-i-better-dealreframe.html#comments Tue, 07 Feb 2012 12:11:42 +0000 Synergy http://www.nlpconnections.com/nlp-seduction-relationships/16954-rejections-make-me-intensely-angry-frustrated-how-could-i-better-deal-reframe.html I've read the 'common anecdotes' of stuff like 'don't take it persoanlly', 'it's just a learning experience', 'it's their loss' etc but these havent helped.

I've tried to do 'buddhist detachment' but I've just been too attached to let go as I feel the other person deserves to feel how they made me feel and I keep turning it over and over in my mind til I eventually manage to forget about it.

At the time such snubs can make me intensely angry. I had a great day yesterday throughout and one rejection on an online dating site has had me angry ever since. Logically it seems really stupid but my anger just doesnt subside for ages until time eventually wears it out.

In person Ive managed to minimise such situations but with online dating such minimization seems rather out of my control. So ironically real life I can deal with or rather avoid it better but online makes me even more angry.

For example I'd sent a message to one girl and in reply I simply got 'sorry, Im not interested'. I tried to send something to save face but got rebuffed yet again with 'fragile egos bruise easily ;)' which of course only enraged me more.

What makes me so angry is how girls can just sit there and gain pleasure rejecting men day and night. Another common nugget is that 'everyone gets rejected' implying itll be their turn next but this is total bullcrap since women can go their whole lives not getting rejected and make men feel like shit as their little hobby.

I know these are not good mindsets to have and they have made me really really bitter and angry in the past which only hurts me. At the same time I havent been able to figure out a better way to frame such situations- all the stuff I've read seems like stuff someone who's never been rejected says they think you SHOULD deal with it from their ivory tower.

Advice welcome. ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57970/rejections-make-me-intensely-angryfrustrated-how-could-i-better-dealreframe.html/feed 0 NLP Liverpool Practice Group – Thursday 23rd February Dealing with Negativity http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57945/nlp-liverpool-practice-group-thursday-23rd-february-dealing-with-negativity.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57945/nlp-liverpool-practice-group-thursday-23rd-february-dealing-with-negativity.html#comments Mon, 06 Feb 2012 16:15:56 +0000 Julie_Cunningham http://www.nlpconnections.com/practice-groups/16953-nlp-liverpool-practice-group-thursday-23rd-february-dealing-negativity.html
NLP Liverpool continue to run their popular NLP Practice group for all comers.

We're a friendly bunch and everyone is welcome, whatever your level of interest, curious beginner to expert.



NLP Liverpool Practice Group
23rd February
Dealing with negativity
6:30 - 9pm
Quaker Meeting House, Liverpool




This month's NLP practice group looks at negativity, your own and other peoples, and the effect it can have. We'll look at verbal and written communication, and help you be more positive in both. We'll also help you resist other people's negativity. So if you know someone who drains the life out of you with their negative energy or if you just want to feel more positive - come along.

For anyone in a management role, we'll also be looking at business communication and how you can deliver your message (emails, presentations, appraisals) in a far more positive way, and get the result you want.
Bring your stories along to the session, and we'll teach you some NLP techniques to keep you positive, at home and at work, you'll notice the difference straight away.

People like positive people.

Head to the website now and get more details and book your place, as these events are very popular. Whle you're here, email me to enrol for our mailing list and we'll keep you up to date with all our events and training opportunities.

We lookforward to meeting you at an event soon

Julie Cunningham
]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57945/nlp-liverpool-practice-group-thursday-23rd-february-dealing-with-negativity.html/feed 0 Subliminal Messages. http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57888/subliminal-messages.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57888/subliminal-messages.html#comments Sat, 04 Feb 2012 00:46:38 +0000 Jan_Schneider http://www.nlpconnections.com/nlp-seduction-relationships/16952-subliminal-messages.html Are any of you curious about subliminal messages? Have you ever wondered if they could actually work in terms of personal change, inducing some new and wanted behaviors?

After doing some research about subliminal messages, I decided to test them, and developed a small software that does this thing.
I've been exposed to this software for 3 days so far,( it is running constantly on my computer while I'm working) and probably I've experience already some changes. It is really hard to tell since it is my own project and what I experienced might be biased by my momentary enthusiasm.

Anyway if any of you would like to try it and share with me your results, feel free to contact me.

Cheers,
Jan ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57888/subliminal-messages.html/feed 0 Science Decodes ‘internal Voices’ http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57864/science-decodes-internal-voices.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57864/science-decodes-internal-voices.html#comments Thu, 02 Feb 2012 17:33:53 +0000 Maniac http://www.nlpconnections.com/chill-out-room/16951-science-decodes-internal-voices.html Science decodes 'internal voices'

By Jason PalmerScience and technology reporter, BBC NewsThe studies focused on a part of the brain associated with sounds called the superior temporal gyrus
Continue reading the main storyRelated Stories


Researchers have demonstrated a striking method to reconstruct words, based on the brain waves of patients thinking of those words.
The technique reported in PLoS Biologyrelies on gathering electrical signals directly from patients' brains.
Based on signals from listening patients, a computer model was used to reconstruct the sounds of words that patients were thinking of.
The method may in future help comatose and locked-in patients communicate.
Several approaches have in recent years suggested that scientists are closing in on methods to tap into our very thoughts; the current study achieved its result by implanting electrodes directly into a part of participants' brains.
In a 2011 study, participants with electrodes in direct brain contact were able to move a cursor on a screen by simply thinking of vowel sounds.
A technique called functional magnetic resonance imaging to track blood flow in the brain has shown promise for identifying which words or ideas someone may be thinking about.
By studying patterns of blood flow related to particular images, Jack Gallant's group at the University of California Berkeley showed in September that patterns can be used to guess images being thought of -recreating "movies in the mind".
All in the mindContinue reading the main story“Start Quote

The development of direct neuro-control over virtual or physical devices would... improve quality of life immensely for those who suffer from impaired communication skills”
Mindy McCumberFlorida Hospital
Now, Brian Pasley of the University of California, Berkeley and a team of colleagues have taken that "stimulus reconstruction" work one step further.
"This is inspired by a lot of Jack's work," Dr Pasley said. "One question was... how far can we get in the auditory system by taking a very similar modelling approach?"
The team focused on an area of the brain called the superior temporal gyrus, or STG.
This broad region is not just part of the hearing apparatus but one of the "higher-order" brain regions that help us make linguistic sense of the sounds we hear.
The team monitored the STG brain waves of 15 patients who were undergoing surgery for epilepsy or tumours, while playing audio of a number of different speakers reciting words and sentences.
The trick is disentangling the chaos of electrical signals that the audio brought about in the patients' STG regions.


To do that, the team employed a computer model that helped map out which parts of the brain were firing at what rate, when different frequencies of sound were played.
With the help of that model, when patients were presented with words to think about, the team was able to guess which word the participants had chosen.
They were even able to reconstruct some of the words, turning the brain waves they saw back into sound on the basis of what the computer model suggested those waves meant.
The technique hinges on plotting brain activity across a number of frequencies
"There's a two-pronged nature of this work - one is the basic science of how the brain does things," said Robert Knight of UC Berkeley, senior author of the study.
"From a prosthetic view, people who have speech disorders... could possibly have a prosthetic device when they can't speak but they can imagine what they want to say," Prof Knight explained.
"The patients are giving us this data, so it'd be nice if we gave something back to them eventually."
The authors caution that the thought-translation idea is still to be vastly improved before such prosthetics become a reality.
But the benefits of such devices could be transformative, said Mindy McCumber, a speech-language pathologist at Florida Hospital in Orlando.
"As a therapist, I can see potential implications for the restoration of communication for a wide range of disorders," she told BBC News.
"The development of direct neuro-control over virtual or physical devices would revolutionise 'augmentative and alternative communication', and improve quality of life immensely for those who suffer from impaired communication skills or means." ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57864/science-decodes-internal-voices.html/feed 0 Input on Advert Appreciated http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57855/input-on-advert-appreciated.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57855/input-on-advert-appreciated.html#comments Thu, 02 Feb 2012 12:50:05 +0000 Biomech http://www.nlpconnections.com/forum/16950-input-advert-appreciated.html Hello!

I was wondering if you would be kind enough to offer any input on this advert I am creating for a newspaper. For me, it just doesn't "feel" right (no I'm not a Kinesthetic ;))

The ad will be run in a wedding suppliment as a quater page to coincide with the NEC wedding show in March.

http://flickr.com/gp/41731611@N03/71vxK0

Any feedback is very much welcomed.

TIA! ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57855/input-on-advert-appreciated.html/feed 0 Sales Prospection and Cold Reading http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57743/sales-prospection-and-cold-reading.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57743/sales-prospection-and-cold-reading.html#comments Fri, 27 Jan 2012 16:01:36 +0000 Chris2 http://www.nlpconnections.com/forum/16949-sales-prospection-cold-reading.html Does anyone have some ideas about using cold reading as a tool for B2B sales prospection?

Here's the context:

I'm into a new project for my company. I'm prospecting for new customers. This is Business To Business prospection, on pretty big ticket items (50K€), mostly directed to upper management of medium sized industrial companies.

Basically I've got a big list of phone numbers of companies who I phone up to try to sell them our products/services. I'm having a lot of fun doing this I must say.

The phone number is simply the companies public phone number, so first step is to speak a line which gets me from whoever answers (secretary) to someone in upper management (best is the big boss, and if not the financial director, commercial director, production director, ...).

This step is working OK for now, I usually manage (after many tries and recalls) to get into contact with someone worth talking to.

Next step is tougher... I get a few minutes on the phone to explain what we do and to get the director interested so he accepts to meet me.

Until now I've set up a speech which cuts through from something pretty objectable (too expensive, we already have that, don't have time for this, ...) to something pretty much "to good to be true" and un-objectable.... with a graduate process. The idea is that they can often object to my initial proposals, but they basically can't object to the last ones.

However, this isn't working as good as I'd like... I think I need to have something that sounds more specific, my speech is too generic.

So, this lunch time at the café I suddenly though that what I needed was some super B2B phone "cold reading" capacities to be able to be specific about what my prospects' problems are and what he's looking for to fix them, only then can I formulate my offer in a pertinent and specific way (basically make sure that my offer sounds like the answers he expects to his problems).

This sounds pretty much like cold reading to me.

Any thoughts? ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57743/sales-prospection-and-cold-reading.html/feed 0 Sales Prospection and Cold Reading http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57779/sales-prospection-and-cold-reading-2.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57779/sales-prospection-and-cold-reading-2.html#comments Fri, 27 Jan 2012 16:01:36 +0000 Chris2 http://www.nlpconnections.com/forum/16949-vbet_delay0x.html Does anyone have some ideas about using cold reading as a tool for B2B sales prospection?

Here's the context:

I'm into a new project for my company. I'm prospecting for new customers. This is Business To Business prospection, on pretty big ticket items (50K€), mostly directed to upper management of medium sized industrial companies.

Basically I've got a big list of phone numbers of companies who I phone up to try to sell them our products/services. I'm having a lot of fun doing this I must say.

The phone number is simply the companies public phone number, so first step is to speak a line which gets me from whoever answers (secretary) to someone in upper management (best is the big boss, and if not the financial director, commercial director, production director, ...).

This step is working OK for now, I usually manage (after many tries and recalls) to get into contact with someone worth talking to.

Next step is tougher... I get a few minutes on the phone to explain what we do and to get the director interested so he accepts to meet me.

Until now I've set up a speech which cuts through from something pretty objectable (too expensive, we already have that, don't have time for this, ...) to something pretty much "to good to be true" and un-objectable.... with a graduate process. The idea is that they can often object to my initial proposals, but they basically can't object to the last ones.

However, this isn't working as good as I'd like... I think I need to have something that sounds more specific, my speech is too generic.

So, this lunch time at the café I suddenly though that what I needed was some super B2B phone "cold reading" capacities to be able to be specific about what my prospects' problems are and what he's looking for to fix them, only then can I formulate my offer in a pertinent and specific way (basically make sure that my offer sounds like the answers he expects to his problems).

This sounds pretty much like cold reading to me.

Any thoughts? ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57779/sales-prospection-and-cold-reading-2.html/feed 0 Presentation Skills http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57422/presentation-skills.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57422/presentation-skills.html#comments Sun, 15 Jan 2012 15:10:38 +0000 Alistair_Donnell http://www.nlpconnections.com/nlp-teaching-learning/16948-presentation-skills.html Some of my classes are preparing for a presentation this week and I wondered if anyone had some ideas for what they could do to prepare for it. Kind of activity based activities. There's a Dilts book out I've found but I won't get it quick enough as the lessons start on Tuesday. I've got some stuff for nerves I was just wondering if anyone had any good tips for making a good presentation and also preparing for it. For example I know the Disney strategy is in the Dilts book but i'm not quite sure how to use it for the preperation part. Any ideas? ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57422/presentation-skills.html/feed 0 Presentation Skills http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57428/presentation-skills-2.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57428/presentation-skills-2.html#comments Sun, 15 Jan 2012 15:10:38 +0000 Alistair_Donnell http://www.nlpconnections.com/nlp-teaching-learning/16948-vbet_delay0x.html Some of my classes are preparing for a presentation this week and I wondered if anyone had some ideas for what they could do to prepare for it. Kind of activity based activities. There's a Dilts book out I've found but I won't get it quick enough as the lessons start on Tuesday. I've got some stuff for nerves I was just wondering if anyone had any good tips for making a good presentation and also preparing for it. For example I know the Disney strategy is in the Dilts book but i'm not quite sure how to use it for the preperation part. Any ideas? ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57428/presentation-skills-2.html/feed 0 Presentation Skills http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57780/presentation-skills-3.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57780/presentation-skills-3.html#comments Sun, 15 Jan 2012 15:10:38 +0000 Alistair_Donnell http://www.nlpconnections.com/nlp-teaching-learning/16948-vbet_delay1x.html Some of my classes are preparing for a presentation this week and I wondered if anyone had some ideas for what they could do to prepare for it. Kind of activity based activities. There's a Dilts book out I've found but I won't get it quick enough as the lessons start on Tuesday. I've got some stuff for nerves I was just wondering if anyone had any good tips for making a good presentation and also preparing for it. For example I know the Disney strategy is in the Dilts book but i'm not quite sure how to use it for the preperation part. Any ideas? ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57780/presentation-skills-3.html/feed 0 NLP Doesnt Really SUCK, Does It ? http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57402/nlp-doesnt-really-suck-does-it.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57402/nlp-doesnt-really-suck-does-it.html#comments Sat, 14 Jan 2012 17:53:15 +0000 john santangelo http://www.nlpconnections.com/forum/16947-nlp-doesnt-really-suck-does.html What a great language pattern!
Haven’t you heard something "like this" many times about the profession you choose to work in?
Yes, I’m sure we all have. It IS unfortunate that, to this date, there are no FORMAL
scientific studies performed and evidence that is DOES WORK. I know Robert Dilts is accumulating resources and money to put together clinical trials for NLP. So until THAT day arrives, hopefully soon, we all have to wait and continue to hone are craft/profession.

The real question here is NOT whether it works or not, it’s DO YOU WORK IT?
It’s about CONFIDENCE in yourself becoming a competent trainer, KNWOLEDGE about what you're communicating, and almost MOST importantly, MARKETING your services to your specific niche and/or community.

Can I ask you a question, WHAT marketing tactics, tips, & strategies are YOU using to promote your NLP, hypnosis or coaching business in todays (Jan. 2012) market? What could you share with everyone about what has worked best for YOU?

So here's your question; what ONE piece of advice would you have given yourself IN THE BEGINNING knowing what you know now???

If you'd like to lend your thoughts or ideas about the true, pure NLP you originally learned,
I'd love to hear from you. We're compiling a new book about the true nature of NLP.
What chapter titles should I include?
What should be the MAIN focus to teach beginngers?
What would make it EASY-IER to read?
What would YOU want to see it it? (visual question)
Any other ideas?

To Your Success, John James Santangelo
www.LANLP.com
Los Angeles' Premier NLP Training Company ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57402/nlp-doesnt-really-suck-does-it.html/feed 0 NLP Doesnt Really SUCK, Does It ? http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57429/nlp-doesnt-really-suck-does-it-2.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57429/nlp-doesnt-really-suck-does-it-2.html#comments Sat, 14 Jan 2012 17:53:15 +0000 john santangelo http://www.nlpconnections.com/forum/16947-vbet_delay1x.html What a great language pattern!
Haven’t you heard something "like this" many times about the profession you choose to work in?
Yes, I’m sure we all have. It IS unfortunate that, to this date, there are no FORMAL
scientific studies performed and evidence that is DOES WORK. I know Robert Dilts is accumulating resources and money to put together clinical trials for NLP. So until THAT day arrives, hopefully soon, we all have to wait and continue to hone are craft/profession.

The real question here is NOT whether it works or not, it’s DO YOU WORK IT?
It’s about CONFIDENCE in yourself becoming a competent trainer, KNWOLEDGE about what you're communicating, and almost MOST importantly, MARKETING your services to your specific niche and/or community.

Can I ask you a question, WHAT marketing tactics, tips, & strategies are YOU using to promote your NLP, hypnosis or coaching business in todays (Jan. 2012) market? What could you share with everyone about what has worked best for YOU?

So here's your question; what ONE piece of advice would you have given yourself IN THE BEGINNING knowing what you know now???

If you'd like to lend your thoughts or ideas about the true, pure NLP you originally learned,
I'd love to hear from you. We're compiling a new book about the true nature of NLP.
What chapter titles should I include?
What should be the MAIN focus to teach beginngers?
What would make it EASY-IER to read?
What would YOU want to see it it? (visual question)
Any other ideas?

To Your Success, John James Santangelo
www.LANLP.com
Los Angeles' Premier NLP Training Company ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57429/nlp-doesnt-really-suck-does-it-2.html/feed 0 NLP Doesnt Really SUCK, Does It ? http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57781/nlp-doesnt-really-suck-does-it-3.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57781/nlp-doesnt-really-suck-does-it-3.html#comments Sat, 14 Jan 2012 17:53:15 +0000 john santangelo http://www.nlpconnections.com/forum/16947-vbet_delay2x.html What a great language pattern!
Haven’t you heard something "like this" many times about the profession you choose to work in?
Yes, I’m sure we all have. It IS unfortunate that, to this date, there are no FORMAL
scientific studies performed and evidence that is DOES WORK. I know Robert Dilts is accumulating resources and money to put together clinical trials for NLP. So until THAT day arrives, hopefully soon, we all have to wait and continue to hone are craft/profession.

The real question here is NOT whether it works or not, it’s DO YOU WORK IT?
It’s about CONFIDENCE in yourself becoming a competent trainer, KNWOLEDGE about what you're communicating, and almost MOST importantly, MARKETING your services to your specific niche and/or community.

Can I ask you a question, WHAT marketing tactics, tips, & strategies are YOU using to promote your NLP, hypnosis or coaching business in todays (Jan. 2012) market? What could you share with everyone about what has worked best for YOU?

So here's your question; what ONE piece of advice would you have given yourself IN THE BEGINNING knowing what you know now???

If you'd like to lend your thoughts or ideas about the true, pure NLP you originally learned,
I'd love to hear from you. We're compiling a new book about the true nature of NLP.
What chapter titles should I include?
What should be the MAIN focus to teach beginngers?
What would make it EASY-IER to read?
What would YOU want to see it it? (visual question)
Any other ideas?

To Your Success, John James Santangelo
www.LANLP.com
Los Angeles' Premier NLP Training Company ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57781/nlp-doesnt-really-suck-does-it-3.html/feed 0 Kent & East Sussex NLP Practise Group ~ Wed 25th January ~ Heather Bond ~ New Beginnings http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57295/kent-east-sussex-nlp-practise-group-wed-25th-january-heather-bond-new-beginnings.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57295/kent-east-sussex-nlp-practise-group-wed-25th-january-heather-bond-new-beginnings.html#comments Wed, 11 Jan 2012 18:14:06 +0000 142holmesdale http://www.nlpconnections.com/practice-groups/16946-kent-east-sussex-nlp-practise-group-%7E-wed-25th-january-%7E-heather-bond-%7E-new-beginnings.html
Wednesday 25th January
United Reform Church Hall
Hawkenbury
TN2 5AW


New Beginnings ~ Heather Bond

Heather Bond is a Certified Business and Life Coach as well as a Certified Trainer of NLP, NLP Coaching and Time Line Therapy™



As we begin a new year often we have made promises to ourselves that this year we will start a fresh, make that change, and create a new life for ourselves.
In a time of change like no other it has never been easier to make changes and create new beginnings in our lives or businesses and yet we often face obstacles, lose the passion and give in.
This talk looks at the motivation killers so you can avoid them and introduces you to some hints and techniques on creating mind-set for motivation and uncovering your personal rules for success.
What can you do to keep up the passion, excitement and the focus so that new beginning becomes a new you, a new business or a new life?
Let’s make 2012 the year we make the biggest difference.




This meeting is open to anyone - you do not have to be NLP qualified.


We start at 7.30pm for networking, with the formal part of the evening starting at 8pm.

For information about the venue or the Group, email beverley.hamilton@uwclub.net
t:: 01892 511231
m: 07946 473844 ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57295/kent-east-sussex-nlp-practise-group-wed-25th-january-heather-bond-new-beginnings.html/feed 0 Kent & East Sussex NLP Practise Group ~ Wed 25th January ~ Heather Bond ~ New Beginnings http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57430/kent-east-sussex-nlp-practise-group-wed-25th-january-heather-bond-new-beginnings-2.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57430/kent-east-sussex-nlp-practise-group-wed-25th-january-heather-bond-new-beginnings-2.html#comments Wed, 11 Jan 2012 18:14:06 +0000 142holmesdale http://www.nlpconnections.com/practice-groups/16946-vbet_delay2x.html
Wednesday 25th January
United Reform Church Hall
Hawkenbury
TN2 5AW


New Beginnings ~ Heather Bond

Heather Bond is a Certified Business and Life Coach as well as a Certified Trainer of NLP, NLP Coaching and Time Line Therapy™



As we begin a new year often we have made promises to ourselves that this year we will start a fresh, make that change, and create a new life for ourselves.
In a time of change like no other it has never been easier to make changes and create new beginnings in our lives or businesses and yet we often face obstacles, lose the passion and give in.
This talk looks at the motivation killers so you can avoid them and introduces you to some hints and techniques on creating mind-set for motivation and uncovering your personal rules for success.
What can you do to keep up the passion, excitement and the focus so that new beginning becomes a new you, a new business or a new life?
Let’s make 2012 the year we make the biggest difference.




This meeting is open to anyone - you do not have to be NLP qualified.


We start at 7.30pm for networking, with the formal part of the evening starting at 8pm.

For information about the venue or the Group, email beverley.hamilton@uwclub.net
t:: 01892 511231
m: 07946 473844 ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57430/kent-east-sussex-nlp-practise-group-wed-25th-january-heather-bond-new-beginnings-2.html/feed 0 Kent & East Sussex NLP Practise Group ~ Wed 25th January ~ Heather Bond ~ New Beginnings http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57782/kent-east-sussex-nlp-practise-group-wed-25th-january-heather-bond-new-beginnings-3.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57782/kent-east-sussex-nlp-practise-group-wed-25th-january-heather-bond-new-beginnings-3.html#comments Wed, 11 Jan 2012 18:14:06 +0000 142holmesdale http://www.nlpconnections.com/practice-groups/16946-vbet_delay3x.html
Wednesday 25th January
United Reform Church Hall
Hawkenbury
TN2 5AW


New Beginnings ~ Heather Bond

Heather Bond is a Certified Business and Life Coach as well as a Certified Trainer of NLP, NLP Coaching and Time Line Therapy™



As we begin a new year often we have made promises to ourselves that this year we will start a fresh, make that change, and create a new life for ourselves.
In a time of change like no other it has never been easier to make changes and create new beginnings in our lives or businesses and yet we often face obstacles, lose the passion and give in.
This talk looks at the motivation killers so you can avoid them and introduces you to some hints and techniques on creating mind-set for motivation and uncovering your personal rules for success.
What can you do to keep up the passion, excitement and the focus so that new beginning becomes a new you, a new business or a new life?
Let’s make 2012 the year we make the biggest difference.




This meeting is open to anyone - you do not have to be NLP qualified.


We start at 7.30pm for networking, with the formal part of the evening starting at 8pm.

For information about the venue or the Group, email beverley.hamilton@uwclub.net
t:: 01892 511231
m: 07946 473844 ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57782/kent-east-sussex-nlp-practise-group-wed-25th-january-heather-bond-new-beginnings-3.html/feed 0 Why Do People Keep…… Writing NLP Books? http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57268/why-do-people-keep-writing-nlp-books.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57268/why-do-people-keep-writing-nlp-books.html#comments Wed, 11 Jan 2012 01:40:29 +0000 gstandard http://www.nlpconnections.com/fight-club/16945-why-do-people-keep-writing-nlp-books.html nI personally have never wanted to author anything and I just have other interests

so when,in another forum on this website, a long time contributor to this website announced that they had written..........an NLP book. this brings yet another NLP book to the marketplace, a market already "saturated" with NLP books

NLP books certainly don't make bestseller lists(at least now with any regularity), and I find it hard to believe that demand for this kind of book far exceeds supply. there cant be that much $$$$ in it.

and yet individuals continue to do it.

is it an overwhelming compelling desire to be published? or something else?

comments? ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57268/why-do-people-keep-writing-nlp-books.html/feed 0 Why Do People Keep…… Writing NLP Books? http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57431/why-do-people-keep-writing-nlp-books-2.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57431/why-do-people-keep-writing-nlp-books-2.html#comments Wed, 11 Jan 2012 01:40:29 +0000 gstandard http://www.nlpconnections.com/fight-club/16945-vbet_delay3x.html nI personally have never wanted to author anything and I just have other interests

so when,in another forum on this website, a long time contributor to this website announced that they had written..........an NLP book. this brings yet another NLP book to the marketplace, a market already "saturated" with NLP books

NLP books certainly don't make bestseller lists(at least now with any regularity), and I find it hard to believe that demand for this kind of book far exceeds supply. there cant be that much $$$$ in it.

and yet individuals continue to do it.

is it an overwhelming compelling desire to be published? or something else?

comments? ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57431/why-do-people-keep-writing-nlp-books-2.html/feed 0 Why Do People Keep…… Writing NLP Books? http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57783/why-do-people-keep-writing-nlp-books-3.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57783/why-do-people-keep-writing-nlp-books-3.html#comments Wed, 11 Jan 2012 01:40:29 +0000 gstandard http://www.nlpconnections.com/fight-club/16945-vbet_delay4x.html nI personally have never wanted to author anything and I just have other interests

so when,in another forum on this website, a long time contributor to this website announced that they had written..........an NLP book. this brings yet another NLP book to the marketplace, a market already "saturated" with NLP books

NLP books certainly don't make bestseller lists(at least now with any regularity), and I find it hard to believe that demand for this kind of book far exceeds supply. there cant be that much $$$$ in it.

and yet individuals continue to do it.

is it an overwhelming compelling desire to be published? or something else?

comments? ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57783/why-do-people-keep-writing-nlp-books-3.html/feed 0 Beginner Needs Advice. http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57217/beginner-needs-advice.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57217/beginner-needs-advice.html#comments Sun, 08 Jan 2012 21:28:58 +0000 ruIn http://www.nlpconnections.com/nlp-personal-improvement/16944-beginner-needs-advice.html Hello everyone.

I'm a total newbie and I need some advice.
I'm ready to change myself and i know exactly how i want to be (and i was "it" for about 30 min.).
Now I need some advice how to get back in that state of mind and become more and more what i want to be.

Links to books or any advice are welcome.

Cheers and a Happy New Year to everyone

ruIn ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57217/beginner-needs-advice.html/feed 0 Beginner Needs Advice. http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57432/beginner-needs-advice-2.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57432/beginner-needs-advice-2.html#comments Sun, 08 Jan 2012 21:28:58 +0000 ruIn http://www.nlpconnections.com/nlp-personal-improvement/16944-vbet_delay4x.html Hello everyone.

I'm a total newbie and I need some advice.
I'm ready to change myself and i know exactly how i want to be (and i was "it" for about 30 min.).
Now I need some advice how to get back in that state of mind and become more and more what i want to be.

Links to books or any advice are welcome.

Cheers and a Happy New Year to everyone

ruIn ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57432/beginner-needs-advice-2.html/feed 0 Beginner Needs Advice. http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57784/beginner-needs-advice-3.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57784/beginner-needs-advice-3.html#comments Sun, 08 Jan 2012 21:28:58 +0000 ruIn http://www.nlpconnections.com/nlp-personal-improvement/16944-vbet_delay5x.html Hello everyone.

I'm a total newbie and I need some advice.
I'm ready to change myself and i know exactly how i want to be (and i was "it" for about 30 min.).
Now I need some advice how to get back in that state of mind and become more and more what i want to be.

Links to books or any advice are welcome.

Cheers and a Happy New Year to everyone

ruIn ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57784/beginner-needs-advice-3.html/feed 0 Www.anybeat.com http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57198/www-anybeat-com.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57198/www-anybeat-com.html#comments Sun, 08 Jan 2012 01:36:22 +0000 malcombhead http://www.nlpconnections.com/chill-out-room/16943-www-anybeat-com.html Hi all,

I don't post here much any more. Most of my recreational internet time I spend on Anybeat. Any Beat is a relatively new social networking site. It is not a new facebook; it is largely an extended forum site with diverse discussion topics including psychology, politics, humour, sexuality and relationships, ecology and just about anything you want. It is not an NLP site, but there is free range for expression there of any matter you choose. Any Beat geddit ? There is a strong leaning towards alternative cultural, artistic and free thinking expression. I think some of you here might like it.

Here's an invite - Anybeat

Check it out - it's free and you have nothing to lose, but a whole load of interesting, funny and well informed people posting there.

See you on Anybeat ?

Cheers

MH ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57198/www-anybeat-com.html/feed 0 Www.anybeat.com http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57433/www-anybeat-com-2.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57433/www-anybeat-com-2.html#comments Sun, 08 Jan 2012 01:36:22 +0000 malcombhead http://www.nlpconnections.com/chill-out-room/16943-vbet_delay5x.html Hi all,

I don't post here much any more. Most of my recreational internet time I spend on Anybeat. Any Beat is a relatively new social networking site. It is not a new facebook; it is largely an extended forum site with diverse discussion topics including psychology, politics, humour, sexuality and relationships, ecology and just about anything you want. It is not an NLP site, but there is free range for expression there of any matter you choose. Any Beat geddit ? There is a strong leaning towards alternative cultural, artistic and free thinking expression. I think some of you here might like it.

Here's an invite - Anybeat

Check it out - it's free and you have nothing to lose, but a whole load of interesting, funny and well informed people posting there.

See you on Anybeat ?

Cheers

MH ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57433/www-anybeat-com-2.html/feed 0 Www.anybeat.com http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57785/www-anybeat-com-3.html http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57785/www-anybeat-com-3.html#comments Sun, 08 Jan 2012 01:36:22 +0000 malcombhead http://www.nlpconnections.com/chill-out-room/16943-vbet_delay6x.html Hi all,

I don't post here much any more. Most of my recreational internet time I spend on Anybeat. Any Beat is a relatively new social networking site. It is not a new facebook; it is largely an extended forum site with diverse discussion topics including psychology, politics, humour, sexuality and relationships, ecology and just about anything you want. It is not an NLP site, but there is free range for expression there of any matter you choose. Any Beat geddit ? There is a strong leaning towards alternative cultural, artistic and free thinking expression. I think some of you here might like it.

Here's an invite - Anybeat

Check it out - it's free and you have nothing to lose, but a whole load of interesting, funny and well informed people posting there.

See you on Anybeat ?

Cheers

MH ]]> http://www.nlpfeed.com/nlp-connections/57785/www-anybeat-com-3.html/feed 0