Pressupositions:
One of the best ways that I have found to learn language patterns is to each and every day take one pattern and write out examples of that pattern for a current theme that is important to you in your “real life.” In this way, their use can become unconscious and automatic. I have heard that Richard Bandler required his NLP Practitioner students to write out 100 examples of each of these patterns. You may want to do that also.

By using presuppositions, we are able to make a statement and have basic assumptions contained in that statement accepted, unconsciously, as being true.

The real “power” of using presuppositions comes from using 3, 4 or more of them together. Of course, to be able to chain many presuppositions together means that we must first learn to use each one of them individually and then move on to grouping them together. It has been said that when 3 presuppositions are used in a row that it is impossible not to accept the embedded presuppositions/assumptions.

The themes that I will use in demonstrating each pattern, as we work through these exercises are:
1. “To be an excellent communicator you will need to learn the importance and use of non−verbal communication.”

Here I will presuppose that in order to be a good communicator you must know how to use the 93% of communication that is non−verbal and “Creating and maintaining rapport is critical to building or enhancing a relationship.”

2. Here I will presuppose that ” Getting and maintaining rapport is crucial to building a relationship.”

Pick one, two or more themes for yourself to use throughout the week or if you wish pick a different theme(s) for each language pattern − your choice.

Day 1 Practice using “Some Quantifiers” − (ALL, EACH, EVERY, SOME, FEW, MANY, NONE)

In my case I’ll take the theme number 1: “To be an excellent communicator you will need to learn the importance and use of non−verbal communication.” and write an example:
“Everyone I know who is really excellent at communicating has mastered the use of non−verbal communication.”

Now I’ll take the theme number 2:
“Creating and maintaining rapport is critical to building or enhancing a relationship.”
Here I will presuppose that getting and maintaining rapport is crucial to building a relationship and write an example for this pattern:
“Few people really understand that creating and maintaining rapport is so critical to building relationships.”

For today practice using some quantifiers with your theme(s). Write out at least 5 examples for each theme(s).

Day 2 Practice using Generic Noun Phrases − (Noun arguments standing for a whole class)
Theme number 1: “The world’s greatest communicators all have learned that to be a great communicator one has to learn and use non−verbal communication.”

Theme number 2: “Psychologists tell us that the ability to create rapport is the very foundation of creating a good relationship.”
For today practice using generic noun phrases with your theme(s). Write out at least 5 examples for each theme(s).

Day 3 Practice using Relative Clauses − (Complex noun arguments, statements that have a noun followed by a phrase beginning with WHO, WHICH, or THAT)
Theme number 1: “All of the experts who have spoken to me have talked about the importance of understanding and using non−verbal communication.”
Theme number 2: “Good relationships are ones which are built on rapport.”
For today practice using relative clauses with your theme(s). Write out at least 5 examples for each theme(s).

Day 4 Practice using Subordinate Clause of Time − (BEFORE, AFTER, DURING, AS, SINCE, PRIOR, WHILE, YET, NOW, AGAIN)
Theme number 1: “Before you can communicate like an expert, you will have to learn non−verbal communication skills.”

Theme number 2: “After you have build a relationship by creating and maintaining rapport, you will know why it’s so important.”
For today practice using subordinate clause of time with your theme(s). Write out at least 5 examples for each theme(s).

Day 5 Practice using Cleft Sentences − (Sentences starting with IT IS or IT WAS)
Theme number 1: “It is knowing how to use non−verbal communication that made Richard Bandler one of the great communicators.”

Theme number 2: “It was our ability to create and maintain rapport that made our relationship outstanding.”

For today practice using cleft sentences quantifiers with your theme(s). Write out at least 5 examples for each theme(s).
Looking forward, where might what you’ve discovered here be useful?
Enjoy

Andy

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